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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

When People Are Unkind

Sometimes people are short-tempered and hurtful. Remember that people who are unkind are badly in need of our love and prayers.

What are some strategies you can use in order to cope in a Christlike way with unloving behavior in those around you?

Suggested Hymn: “Dear Lord and Father of Mankind” (Words: John Whittier, 1872. Music: Frederick Maker, 1887).

Scripture: “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you” (Colossians 3:13).

My Life's Purpose

In your walk with the Lord you have found that He has used you often as a vessel to bless and teach other people. Your ministry has not come to an end simply because you are no longer as active as you once were. God is using your needs to teach those who help you to become more Christlike.

Write or say a prayer now for those who are learning to help you.

Suggested Hymn: “Pass Me Not, O Gentle Savior” (Words: Fanny Crosby, 1868. Music: Howard Doane, 1870).

Scripture: “…whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Cor. 10:31).

Do Not Be Afraid

You have reached a point in your life where must accept help from others, and it isn’t easy. To make matters worse you sometimes overhear people saying things that are not comforting. Try to overhear the Lord’s voice instead! What is He saying to you today?

Suggested Hymn: “A Mighty Fortress is Our God” (Words and Music: Martin Luther, 1529).

Scripture: “Do not be afraid of what you have heard” (2 Kings 19:6b).

Linda Born, Alzheimer's Caregiver

I have been an Alzheimer's caregiver for my mother, Anna Ruth, since 2004. As I grew into the role of caregiver, I became aware of the need for simple devotions that would provide my mother with spiritual nourishment. These devotions were written to help Mom to remember her love for the Lord and even more importantly, to guide her to think upon His love for her. My prayer is that other dementia patients may benefit as well.

Many of the conflicts that occur between people with dementia and their caregivers spring from the fact that in order for the relationship to be mostly positive, two completely different perspectives must come together in harmony. When the patient is a loved one, the caregiver faces not only an increased workload, but also new financial worries and the loss of emotional support as the relationship of the past is redefined. On the patient’s part, dementia has narrowed perceptions to the degree that there is little awareness or empathy for the struggles of the caregiver. The confusion and disorientation of cognitive dysfunction may result in suspicion and fear-based anger. When both patient and caregiver know and love the Lord, reminders of His steadfast love provide a common ground through which empathy and love can flow.